Getting Your Child Ready to Start School
By Maya Fairbrook · Oct 17, 2026 · 5 min read
In a nutshell
Being able to read is not the most important preparation. Independence and confidence matter more.
Starting school is a huge milestone for children and parents alike. Many parents worry about whether their child knows enough letters or numbers.
Teachers often say that practical independence and social skills make the biggest difference in the first weeks.
Tip 1 Practical independence
- đź’ˇ Using the toilet independently, including washing hands
- đź’ˇ Putting on and taking off a coat and shoes
- đź’ˇ Opening lunchboxes, packets, and drink bottles
- đź’ˇ Recognising their own name on belongings
Tip 3 Talk about it positively
Read books about starting school, walk past the building, and talk about what they will do there. Avoid using school as a threat (“you will have to sit still at school”) and be honest that it might feel strange at first.
Tip 4 Get the routine in place
A couple of weeks before school starts, shift bedtimes and wake-up times toward the school schedule. Practise the morning routine and the journey.
Tip 5 The first weeks
Many children are exhausted in their first term and may be grumpy or tearful after school. Keep after-school activities light, offer a snack and some quiet time, and do not worry if they do not want to talk about their day straight away.
This is general parenting information, not medical advice. Every child is different — talk to your paediatrician, family doctor, or a qualified specialist about your child’s health, development, or behaviour. In an emergency, call your local emergency number.
Tip 2 Social and emotional skills
Practise taking turns, waiting, listening to a story, and asking an adult for help. Playdates with children who will be in the same class can make the first day less daunting.