Helping Your Child Make Friends at School
By Maya Fairbrook · Sep 26, 2026 · 6 min read
In a nutshell
Social skills can be practised. Here is how to support your child.
Friendships are important for children’s happiness and wellbeing.
Some children find it easy; others need support.
Tip 2 Create opportunities
Invite a classmate over for a short playdate, join clubs, or meet at a park.
Tip 3 Talk about friendship
Ask about their day, listen, and discuss how to handle disagreements.
Tip 4 When to talk to the school
If your child seems isolated, unhappy, or is being bullied, speak to their teacher.
Tip 5 Respect their style
Some children prefer one or two close friends rather than a big group, and that is perfectly healthy. Introverted children may need downtime after socialising. Focus on whether your child seems happy and has at least one positive relationship, rather than the number of friends.
Friendships also change as children grow. Falling out with a friend is a normal part of learning, and talking through what happened helps them build skills for the future.
This is general parenting information, not medical advice. Every child is different — talk to your paediatrician, family doctor, or a qualified specialist about your child’s health, development, or behaviour. In an emergency, call your local emergency number.